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You have probably tried unsuccessfully to date women online or you’re not sure you’ll be able to find the woman you’re looking for. You may have read several Dating Guides that ramble on for ever without giving you any real information on how and where to find women online! I have news for you, you are not alone! Don’t give up or be demoralised about the whole subject. You’ve come to the right place. This is the definitive Dating Guide giving you all the inside knowledge you need to succeed.

The Internet is huge and there are hundreds of Dating guides all promising to find you the perfect woman. The sheer choice alone is enough to put anyone off the whole idea. There are thousands of women out there, all over the world, looking for people like you. The secret of success basically comes down to one short but golden rule, be honest with yourself and others. 

If you describe yourself as 30’s, handsome, slim and a successful businessman online and later when you meet your lady face to face she finds out you are in your 40’s, overweight and unemployed then she will be disappointed and to be honest, can you blame her? If she thinks you’re looking for a serious relationship and you are looking for a casual encounter then the meeting will not go as either you or she planned. The woman you are looking for is out there and believe it or not, she is looking for you!

The first step is to find the right Dating guide.

There are many different kinds so what exactly are you looking for? You need to narrow the field a little. Are you looking for casual encounters or one night stands? Not all women are seeking a permanent relationship. There are sites catering for men and women looking for a casual or short term affair and there are many ladies who are compatible with your needs and desires.

Maybe you are looking for women from different countries or cultures. If so then there are specific sites with many profiles of women who are looking for a person like you.

If you are looking for your perfect partner and soul sister then there are lots of women who would love to meet you.

Don’t be in a rush, take your time and browse through the websites, look at the profiles of members available and find out the differences between having a free membership and a paid membership – you will need this information later. If you find the women’s profiles attractive and you’re happy with the site, including its terms and conditions, then sign on for a free membership for a dating guide. 

Applying for a free membership with a serious website will normally not include giving your bank or credit card details, just some general information about where you live, what you do, likes and dislikes etc.. You will certainly be able to meet women online to chat to although personal details and meeting them face to face is discouraged at this point. Be patient and get to know her first, does she want the same as you, do your plans fit in with hers? If so, great and you can move on to the next step. If not, then be patient and keep looking, enjoy simply meeting people for the sake of it. It will give you more self confidence, increase your circle of friends and help you take the next step.

Once you have got to know a woman online at one point or another you will probably want to meet her. This will certainly mean becoming a paid member of the site in order to obtain her personal contact details. When you do finally meet her face to face, if you and her have both been open and honest with each other then you are sure to enjoy yourselves and have a great time, whether it be a short term or long term relationship. 

Enjoy yourself and make friends, take the plunge today!

She may be special to you, you may need her to prove her need of you, whatever the reason, you must remember she is a person just like you and I and she has the same basic needs and desires as us all. Follow these dating recommendations and she will not want you to leave, not tonight, not ever…

We all want to be loved, needed and desired and therein lies the key…

Do you make her feel good?

She should feel good about herself and her life. Having a sunny, optimistic attitude towards life comes from feeling good inside. Having a happy outlook makes life just go better.

Why do you like this woman? Does she make you laugh, is she interesting? Does she make you feel happy? Does she make you feel happier about yourself? Whatever the reasons you’re with her, tell her.

Do you make her feel needed?

Feelings of uselessness, of being unwanted are terrible for an individual’s ego. We have an inborn need to feel necessary, for work, to our friends but most of all to the one we love.

Tell her that you need her, tell her why and what she means to you, but most of all, show her. Telephone calls, a quick SMS just to say “Hi, I’m thinking of you…”. Flowers are still lovely but a bar of her favourite chocolate is just as good. 

Do you make her feel desired?

Any woman has the need to feel attractive, to be desired. A quick look or a small compliment is all it takes sometimes to make her day special and she will remember you for that. You will be surprised and delighted by what a small caress on the hand or hair can lead to…

Once she feels good as a person then she needs to feel good as a woman, as your woman.

Flirting with other girls, not keeping your promises, turning up late to see her (or not at all) all these are guaranteed to damage and not strengthen your relationship. 

Does she see you as a strong person?

A strong (but not overbearing) personality, is seen as positive in a partner. Woman like strength and decisiveness in their partner. Women still look to be protected but not suffocated. They like to be looked after but not fussed over constantly.

Does she perceive you as serious?

Are you honest and reliable with her? Keep your promises, be truthful and don’t try to hide things, she will find out eventually. Don’t play with her feelings or you’ll be out the door before you know it!

Do you understand her?

Someone once said 90% of sex takes place above the waist. If she sees you as an understanding person, someone who really cares then she will want to keep you with her. Never underestimate conversation. A kind word can open lots of doors in any relationship. Here it can work wonders. How many times have you heard someone complain “He (or she) doesn’t understand me!”. Take the time to get to really know her, it’ll be worth it.

There are only 6 dating recommendations but they are important. If you can answer those six Dating Recommendations with a resounding “yes” then she is certainly not going to let you go through that door, you will be the answer to her dreams…..