Dating Recommendations: What Will Make Her Beg You to Stay
January 13th, 2008
She may be special to you, you may need her to prove her need of you, whatever the reason, you must remember she is a person just like you and I and she has the same basic needs and desires as us all. Follow these dating recommendations and she will not want you to leave, not tonight, not ever…
We all want to be loved, needed and desired and therein lies the key…
Do you make her feel good?
She should feel good about herself and her life. Having a sunny, optimistic attitude towards life comes from feeling good inside. Having a happy outlook makes life just go better.
Why do you like this woman? Does she make you laugh, is she interesting? Does she make you feel happy? Does she make you feel happier about yourself? Whatever the reasons you’re with her, tell her.
Do you make her feel needed?
Feelings of uselessness, of being unwanted are terrible for an individual’s ego. We have an inborn need to feel necessary, for work, to our friends but most of all to the one we love.
Tell her that you need her, tell her why and what she means to you, but most of all, show her. Telephone calls, a quick SMS just to say “Hi, I’m thinking of you…”. Flowers are still lovely but a bar of her favourite chocolate is just as good.
Do you make her feel desired?
Any woman has the need to feel attractive, to be desired. A quick look or a small compliment is all it takes sometimes to make her day special and she will remember you for that. You will be surprised and delighted by what a small caress on the hand or hair can lead to…
Once she feels good as a person then she needs to feel good as a woman, as your woman.
Flirting with other girls, not keeping your promises, turning up late to see her (or not at all) all these are guaranteed to damage and not strengthen your relationship.
Does she see you as a strong person?
A strong (but not overbearing) personality, is seen as positive in a partner. Woman like strength and decisiveness in their partner. Women still look to be protected but not suffocated. They like to be looked after but not fussed over constantly.
Does she perceive you as serious?
Are you honest and reliable with her? Keep your promises, be truthful and don’t try to hide things, she will find out eventually. Don’t play with her feelings or you’ll be out the door before you know it!
Do you understand her?
Someone once said 90% of sex takes place above the waist. If she sees you as an understanding person, someone who really cares then she will want to keep you with her. Never underestimate conversation. A kind word can open lots of doors in any relationship. Here it can work wonders. How many times have you heard someone complain “He (or she) doesn’t understand me!”. Take the time to get to really know her, it’ll be worth it.
There are only 6 dating recommendations but they are important. If you can answer those six Dating Recommendations with a resounding “yes” then she is certainly not going to let you go through that door, you will be the answer to her dreams…..